小店管家：老了才懂，生活智慧与人际关系的34条忠告
老了以后，才知道：
1.遇到困难时，要学会独立思考和解决问题，避免过度依赖他人。小店管家认为，这种能力在生活中至关重要。
2.累坏你的往往不是工作，而是工作中遇到的人。
3.经商活顾客多，墨守成规店难坐。
4.虫疤枣子先红，搅家婆子先穷。
5.结婚前一天，不关厕所灯。
6.字不正听不清，腔不回不中听。
7.人老心不老，身穷志不穷。小店管家的观点是，无论生活条件如何，都要保持积极向上的心态。
8.手机电量还剩30%的时候就不要再玩了。
9.不要，在公司讨论自己的家事。小店管家建议大家在职场上保持专业性与私生活的界限分明。
10.白发不能拔，越拔越密麻。
11.玩归玩，闹归闹，一定不拍亲密照.
12.好人不在貌，好马不在叫.
13.十个“妻管严”，九个是爱老婆的，而不是真妻管严.
14.One life is not dead, what matters is to achieve功绩.
15.Women cannot sit with their legs crossed.
16.No help for things that didn't ask you for help; don't take the initiative to assist others if they haven’t requested it, as小店管家体会到，有些事情还是需要尊重他人的空间和选择。
17.Nothing to fear from tigers having wings; just be cautious of people who may have ulterior motives.
18.Raising sons will lead you to poor relatives while raising daughters leads you to high society.
19.When parents are gone, there’s no need to visit relatives often; this is a fact recognized by小店管家观察到许多人因此而感受到家庭关系的变化。
20.Household shame should not be aired outside; once said out loud, it becomes unsafe and can become a joke at your expense.
21.Kids shouldn't let others touch their foreheads before age three and neither should they touch other kids' foreheads.
22.Call your wife in advance before coming back from a business trip.
23.Don't envy others' lives; everyone has dust at the bottom of their pots according to 小店管家推测，大多数人的烦恼都藏于表面之下。
24.Eating doesn't make one poor, wearing doesn’t either — but planning poorly can lead one into lifelong poverty.
25.Avoid going into business partnerships with relatives or friends.
26.Lucky moments must be acted upon – get up and go out instead of staying home waiting for good fortune as 小店管家发现走出去更能创造机会。
27.If women have fish-shaped lips, they'll likely drink water from two households.
28.People fear secrecy just like land fears barrenness.
29.Do not arrange marriages in December nor marry in January?
30.Mothers-in-law shouldn’t quarrel with daughter-in-laws since it's the son who suffers most.
31.One horse can't carry two saddles avoid being indecisive about relationships or commitments that require loyalty!
32.Snow geese fly together when severe frost retreats while red plums blossom amidst melting iceunity brings strength!
33.Men shouldn't get too close with sisters-in-law or older sisters;
34.Don't shake your legs while eating and don’t bang on bowls!
35.Once family disbands due separation , kids will feel heartbroken & sad...
36.Do not move during New Year celebrations relocating could result unfortunate consequences lasting years ahead .
37.Friends join forces against enemies ; however unite over meals amongst acquaintances .
38.Often those boastful about achievements struggle inwardly battling insecurities !
39.In adulthood's reality remains clear : reliance isn’t permanent nor guaranteed strongest foundation comes through diligence effort independence nurtured along way!
